Engagement Story Contest

I’ve decided to extend our contest to the end of the month! Keep those stories coming, folks! 🙂

Valentine’s Day is a very popular day to pop the question.  Keeping that in mind, I have decided to run my first blog contest.  Post a comment with your engagement story.  The best story wins a free portrait session.  Everyone who enters receives a $50 coupon toward any photography booking.  This contest will run until the end of the week, and I will announce the winner next Monday.

Congratulations!  And happy Valentine’s Day!
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Obama in cupcakes

http://www.ustream.tv/channel/smithsonian-on-ustream.tv

http://www.flickr.com/photos/graphixoutpost/3277461292/

They are making a picture of Obama & Lincoln out of cupcakes!! Man, I want to go to the Smithsonian and eat them! Obama’s cupcakes are chocolate filled. Of course, the link is the live stream of the build, so it may not be there any more.

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Women are the only cooks?

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/11/dining/11immi.html

I just read an article about immigrants and how they have adjusted traditional meals to fit both the available foods and the lifestyle in the states. It was an interesting article, but I noticed that it seemed they only talked to women cooks. It was always women cooking for themselves and their husbands and children. I suppose in other countries it’s traditional for women to be the cooks? I guess it is here, but that just seems so odd to me. My dad has always been more interested in cooking than my mom. Sure I would come home from school to find mom standing over the stove creating something, but I always got the feeling with mom that it was about the convenience factor. She made spaghetti (ground beef, onions, a can of mushrooms and some tomato sauce left to simmer), casseroles (left over roast, elbow macaroni, cheese left in the oven to bake) and other “set it and forget it” meals. My step dad did a lot of the more elaborate cooking like pork chops and steaks which required constant monitoring. Sorry mom if that’s not the way it was, but that was the impression I got. If Stouffer’s didn’t make it, she wasn’t interested was her motto. She doesn’t cook now thanks to the really great cafeteria at her school, and we always eat out or eat something she’s picked up when we visit. Dad, on the other hand, will make chicken and greens and dressing or grill steaks and make salads. It’s always a much bigger production with him. It’s the same all around me. Nathan’s dad is always the cook when we visit (unless Nathan is the cook), and we rarely eat with his mom. At our house even, Nathan is the chef and I’m the assistant (thanks to the atomic chili incident and Nathan’s pickier palette). So to read an article that’s all about women cooking with little or no mention of help from their menfolk just seems so alien to me. Thoughts?

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Wow!

I am going to learn to do this!

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Memories…

I recently took it upon myself to move my myspace, friendster, and facebook blog-like stuff over here. Go read about my personal wedding drama and hear me whine about my mom or learn about the crazy plumbers who wanted to charge us for coming out after we had already cancelled the appointment. Or just stick with the new stuff.

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Advice for New Photographers

This is a reposting/update of a blog I wrote on Myspace Jan 16, 2007 3:59 AM.

This was in response to a request for advice from a new photographer.  Take from it what you will.  In the eyes of the general public, we are all only as good as the worst of us until we can prove ourselves better.  Let’s try to bring up the base line so none of us have as far to go.

My first piece of advice is never undersell yourself.  It is hard to sell yourself as a high end photographer if everyone thinks you are a budget photographer.  Many small budget brides expect as much or more than big budget brides.  They often still think they have paid too much and will make you work for the $500 (or however much) they think they have over paid.  People who are willing to pay a premium for photography are buying your art and see it as such.  You will have more freedom to shoot what you want if your clients view you as an artist rather than a technician.  

Of course, like all generalizations, this isn’t always true for either small budget or big budget brides.  There are big budget brides with tight purse strings and a view of photography that doesn’t include art and laid back small budget brides who just want beautiful pictures.  Pick your desired market, and price yourself for those brides.  If you really want to photograph someone’s wedding, feel free to give them a discount.  Just make sure you are clear this is a discount and not your normal price.

When setting a price, sit down and figure out how many hours you will spend working on the wedding.  Beyond simply shoot time, there is pre and post-production.  For every hour shooting, I spend around 5 hours in post (editing, color correcting, posting images on line) and pre-production (meetings, planning, equipment cleaning).  This does not include the time and costs associated with albums.  Figure out how much you would want to be paid per hour to shoot and to preform post production tasks.  These can be different.  Once you have your hourly fees, do the math.  Your prices should cover this cost plus any overhead such as assistants or second shooters, parking fees, or snacks for a long event at a minimum.  MS Excel is a fantastic program for this job.

If you are shooting for a friend, be clear from the outset what is included as a “friend” bonus and what they are expected to pay for.  Your friends should understand that this is what you do for a living.  If you are shooting their wedding, you are unable to shoot a wedding for someone else.  I have often given friends discounts in the form of free time or prints as a wedding gift.

Do not let people bully you to back down from your prices or give things away for free.  This is the amount you feel you are worth and this is how you make your living.  You should strive to accept only the weddings that meet your requirements in both price and general niceness of the couple.  If they are trying to bully you before you sign a contract, this may be an indication of the relationship to come.

Get paid in advance.  If this is not an option, do not release any images until your full price has been paid.  Once you release anything tangible, it is next to impossible to retrieve it if they do not complete their payment.  Some people will balk at this, but the only industry that does not expect payment in advance of delivery is restaurants, and they get stiffed every so often.  As a small business, getting stiffed on a wedding where you may have several hundred to several thousand dollars in overhead for an event is a big bummer.

Try to book with the couple rather than their parents.  You want the couple to love the pictures most.  Booking with parents can sometimes put you in the middle of a power struggle.  This is never a pretty situation, and often frustrations can be taken out on you.

If you get the good food, great, but either way, make sure they feed you at a long event.  Any event lasting over 6 hours will probably have food.  If it’s a buffet, grabbing a bite on your way by is easy.  If it’s a seated dinner, make sure there is something to eat, even if it’s a vendor meal.  Talk to the coordinator and kitchen/serving staff if you don’t see any sign of food for you.  A hungry photographer is not shooting her best.  Always pack snacks just in case.  In addition, try to make friends with the other vendors.  They will refer you for one thing, and if you show up to a wedding full of vendor friends, your day will often go much more smoothly.

Find out if there are family members or other guests who do not get along.  If the parents of the bride had a nasty divorce and continue to loath each other, they should not be next to each other in any pictures.  Sometimes it is better to keep them out of the same pictures all together.  Speak to the couple about what they want.  Friends and relatives should suck it up and be nice to each other for the bride and groom’s sake, but this does not always happen.

Be true to yourself.  It’s obvious when you’re shooting in a style that is not your own.  Your images suffer.  It’s great to try out new styles, but do that on your own time, not on the clients’.

Always check your equipment the day before the shoot and the morning of the shoot before you leave your house.  If it’s been a while since your last shoot, take it out a few days early and do some test shooting just to make sure everything is in tip top shape.  Clean your gear thoroughly.  You can’t leave a shoot to buy more batteries (although, you could send your assistant in an emergency) or rent another camera body and it’s easier to shoot with a clean camera than to retouch all of those dust specks.

Bring an assistant.  They are invaluable!  I always shoot in a team of two or more.  If you have little to no experience as a wedding photographer, go be an assistant or a second-shooter for a seasoned pro.  Wedding photography might look easy (we show up to a party and take pretty pictures, right?), but there are nuances and issues that pop up unexpectedly.  What do you do if the flowers are late or the groom’s pants break or the bride has a melt down.  Well, you keep your cool and use the knowledge you gained working with other photographers and shooting your own assignments to find a solution.

Don’t buy cheap equipment.  If you can’t afford the really good stuff, go for the medium level.  Never buy cheap.  Camera bodies have dropped significantly in price, and you can get a great camera for as little as $1000-$1500.  If it’s another $100-200 to get a slightly faster lens, find the money.  Lenses are especially important.  A cheap lens on a great camera will often lead to worse pictures than a good lens on a cheap camera.  The lens that comes in a package with many cameras available today is a cheap lens. If you can only afford 1 body and 1 lens right now, work with what you have and save up for the good stuff.  Don’t blow your money on a full set up of slow lenses made with cheap glass.  The lenses I would suggest starting with are: 24-70/2.8 and 70-200/2.8.  Yes, these are expensive, but you can shoot any event with these two lenses.  Beyond that, I would suggest a wide angle and any fun specialty lenses you may want.  But as a word of warning, variable f-stop lenses will drive you crazy and are generally cheap lenses.  Buy a fixed f-stop lens (that’s the little number after the focal range) in the 2.8 or 4 (at the slowest) range or faster if possible (the lower the number, the faster the lens, the more light it lets in, the darker the situation you can shoot in).  I buy the majority of my gear from B&H and One Call.  For computer stuff (like DVDs, another thing to NEVER skimp on, and memory cards) I like NewEgg.

Shoot in RAW.  Editing, color correcting and salvaging exposures are all good reasons to avoid jpeg.  Also, RAW files are generally larger dimensionally, so you can print them larger.  Memory is getting cheaper every day.  Keep an eye out for rebates. 8 gig cards are my favorite size.

Find a good lab.  No, an AWESOME lab.  A mediocre lab makes your pictures look mediocre.  Period.  Many labs will provide you with test prints (you send files, they send you prints so you can see the quality). 

Protect your images.  If you want to give files with your packages, work that into the price.  Files are like gold and should be treated as such. Always back everything up to DVD immediately.  Hard drives are a great way to access files, but if they corrupt, you will be glad to have the originals on disk.  Never skimp on DVDs by buying the cheap-o brand.  I have used Verbatim & Memorex with great success.  Fuji & Sony disks aren’t bad either.

Finally, your outward professional appearance is key.  Always speak clearly without using an overabundance of slang.  Parents cannot relate and are often the ones holding the final say of where their money is going.  When e-mailing, double and triple check your grammar and spelling.  LOL, OMG, UR and the like are not English words.  They are fine for chatting with friends, but should never enter any professional correspondance.  The world has not moved to text-speak, and using it gives an impression of youth and unprofessionalism.  Captial letters are your friends.  Never use a lowercase “i” when speaking about yourself.  Never use lowercase letters to begin sentences or for proper nouns.  Of course, im etiquette applies as well, so don’t “yell.”  Also, limit the number of punctuation marks to meet proper grammar, and limit the number of exclamation points only to situations where there are absolutely necessary to express your point.  I cannot stress how important all of this is.  As someone who looks far younger than I am, being taken seriously by potential clients is extremely important.  You would not want to do anything to lower their opinion of your professionalism.  Of course, we are also artists, so don’t feel like you have to dress like an accountant.  A bit of funk in the wardrobe or an interesting hair color are generally acceptable in our field.  If someone decides not to book you based on your appearance rather than the quality of your photography, that is not a client you wanted anyway.  I like to wear something fun for meetings, however, my shoot uniform is all black with soft soled shoes.  I started shooting in suits, but now I wear black pants and a nice black shirt. 

Good luck!  I hope this was helpful.

Claire Presnall

Rebecca Claire Photography

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Um, NONONO!

So I just tried to post a link on my facebook page (this one to be exact) and facebook asked me to verify that I’m a real person by figuring out what the text says.  No problem.  Then I see a little link to never have to do those again by “verifying” my account.  Curious, I click it and get the request for my MOBILE PHONE NUMBER!!  So they can text me a confirmation code?!?!  Um, NO!  NO!NO!NO!NO!NO!  I will NEVER give facebook my phone number.  They don’t need to call me!  I don’t even text, so I couldn’t confirm it anyway.  It would just be one more entity to sell my personal information to phone banks of people who want to sell me crap I don’t need.  There is NO WAY facebook needs my phone number.  How creepy!  I feel dirty they even asked!  Blech!  I need to go take a shower in boilig holy water and hydrogen peroxide and perhaps some iodine and rubbing alcohol.  Then scrap the outer layer of skin off and do it all again.  Why?!  Why, facebook, do you want my phone number?!  Are you lonely?  Is this textual relationship not doing it for you?  Do you long to hear the melodious song of my voice?  Well too bad!  Come to Knoxville and hang out at the Holy Land Market or Big Fatty’s or Elegant Essentials and you may have a chance to meet me.  But if you send me some creepy text, I won’t read it.  I don’t even know where to look for it.  Your attempts to woo me from my marriage has failed.  I am tempted to delete my page and return to myspace.  THEY never asked for my phone number.  They were content with the information I shared and never asked for more.  You’ve changed, facebook.  No longer are you the fun hang out of all my younger cousins and siblings who pestered me until I joined.  You are now evil and corporate.  For shame!

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Snow!!

IT SNOWED!!

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Nathan was a pain to get outside.  He likes to look a pretty snow rather than play in it.  He had fun once we got out there.

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I built a snow lady.  She was pretty good sized.  Nathan accidentally kicked her when I was in the early stages.  Then he pelted me with snowballs.  One hit me just right and went down my pants.  It was cold and very wet!

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Of course, I wasn’t completely innocent of snowball throwing.  I may have started it.  I can’t remember.

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This should give you an idea of how deep the snow was (sort of).  It was pretty deep for around here.  And very wet and sticky.  They may have been the biggest flakes I’ve ever seen.
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Alfred wasn’t quite sure what he thought of snow.  He eventually warmed up to it.  Nathan enjoyed lobbing snowballs around him.  He jumped at every one.

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The cats hated the snow!  They try to sneak out into the back yard or at least on the deck all the time.  But the snow made it totally not worth it.

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Nathan’s Birthday

I just sent an email to the fam today with my plans for Nate’s birthday.  I thought I could post it here for any friends who might be trying to think of something good to get him for his birthday.  I’ll let you know when we figure out what we’re doing party-wise.

Nate!  If you are reading this post, I forbid you from continuing. Seriously!  Don’t ruin the fun!  Now run along and do some zombie stuff…

 

 
Is he gone?  Great!  On to the important stuff.

 

 

 

Nate turns 30 this year and what better way to celebrate a big milestone of adulthood than with video games. With that in mind, I plan to buy Nate a Nintendo Wii for his birthday. This is a secret, so mum’s the word.

I’m not sure what the birthday plan is, but it’s a Thursday. I’m thinking he’ll go with bowling or Wii bowling.

Back to the gift thing. If you would like to participate in the theme, we will also need a second Wii-mote and nunchuck (and perhaps a third and fourth). Games are also key, but I know Nothing about Wii games, so you’re on your own there. I think I saw a Guitar Hero or Rock Band option for the Wii and multiplayer party games are always fun.

If you would like to participate but have no clue where to start (you know who you are), you can also send some moolah and a note about the type of Wii thing you would like to get, and I’ll take care of it.

Now the key is buying the Wii secretly and hiding it until March. 🙂

Lucky for me and my sneakiness, I don’t think Nate actually reads my blog.  Whew!

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Luckily I have two cats

And the other one is too lazy to protest so much.

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